The insecure life is livedwith emotionalist demands for others to placate the self’s inability to stabilize its own moodand compensates for the anxieties of its distressed mindby promoting wishful idealism in order to subvert and suppress intolerable realism. Idealism is a coping belief that suggests the self is so importantits mind is the focal point of realityholding the role of dictating what should and shouldn’t bebecause it sees itself as the main character of existenceand reality is meant to be servile to its demand. idealism is delusion.